Today's episode of Double Bonus really fast forwarded to two years later. How can she suddenly get a daughter. The build up is so anti climatic. Fake one lor! She will confirm wake up or something again hahaha! So it seems that Daqi will not be moving out after all. He is becoming quite the irritating person hahaha. I am more interested to see how the two sisters fare. One might have the horror of developing into an indecent relationship with her Godpa :O (ewww imagine tiko uncle!) and the other with her 'benefactor' ;) lets see how Junyang escapes the clutches.
What can I say about work today? Everyday I work ceaselessly. I just have not been running for some time. I find aerobics the real killer. I need motivation.
How can I be helpful? The training I received as a conflict manager back in primary school sure is not helpful. Well I cannot remember a thing actually. What I do know is that first dibs on anything you really want is important.
how the pros do it Begin with softer movements:
Effleurage: Soft and fluid strokes steadily applied with the palm of the hand. It will stretch the soft tissue and is very relaxing. It's a good way to help her body get used to your touch. Always use this technique before and after more energetic rubbing.
The fan stroke: Your hands should be at either side of the spine above her hips, with your fingers facing her head. Slide your hands up to her shoulder blades with a bit of pressure. Next, move up and out toward the shoulders in a curve, and move back down along the rib cage to your initial position. Basically, you're drawing a coarse heart, which should classify you as quite the romantic.
The circling hands: Wax on, wax off for the nonviolent crowd. Your right hand should be perpendicular to her spine with your fingers pointing to her left. Make counterclockwise semicircular motion with your fingers always pointing in the same direction. Once you've gone a few inches, have your left hand seamlessly take over. And so on. Before long, you will have left-traced an entire circle.
Once her body is accustomed to your attention, you can move on to more vigorous actions:
Kneading: Ever given someone a back rub? Then you're already accustomed to this method. It consists of rhythmically squeezing the flesh and muscles for approximately half a minute. Go slowly and don't simply aim for the skin. Remember, it's a massage, not a dungeon of pain.
Milking: Similar to kneading, only here you use both hands to grab onto a single muscle group and squeeze, alternating between your right and left hand. Imagine you are milking a cow, hence the name. Then roll the flesh between your fingers.
Here's a great and fun way to bring this to a close:
Fingertips raking: Arch your hands so that only your fingertips apply pressure to her body, but first make sure that your fingernails aren't potential weapons. Then, remember last fall and rake your heart out.
You can try all these techniques on different parts of her body. Experiment and pay attention to her reactions as you go.
don't wanna get slapped, do you? 1- Never, ever apply pressure directly on the spine. It can be unpleasant and frankly, I would avoid any spots that can cause serious neurological damage.
2- Similarly, massaging the belly can be a source of discomfort for your woman.
3- Don't pinch. It can be easy to succumb to it when kneading and milking, but you should avoid it.
4- And finally, once you start the massage, never leave your partner without your touch. If you need more oil, try doing so with only one hand so that the momentum is never broken.
the grand finale When you're done, use a spare towel and wipe the extra lubricant from her body. It will also signal to her that it's over. Have something to drink close by, as people tend to be thirsty after a good rubdown. And take the time to discuss the great moment the two of you just shared.
Basically, keep it relaxing. If you are massaging a friend in the hopes of better, less lonesome days, don't turn the event into a sexual one halfway through just because you have an opportunity. Let her make that decision -- otherwise, chances are the only person you'll be massaging is yourself.
